The holiday season is the perfect time to show your appreciation for the invaluable support and care your nanny provides to your family throughout the year. A thoughtful nanny holiday gift or bonus not only conveys gratitude but also demonstrates intimate relationship and your respect for their hard work.
Here are some top holiday gift ideas that will surely make your nanny feel cherished and appreciated.
1. Monetary Bonus
Let’s be honest, money is a game changer. While some may consider it to be thoughtless and a little bit crass, a monetary bonus is a classic and highly appreciated gesture, especially in this economy. It’s practical and offers your nanny the flexibility to use it as they wish. This gift could be the surprise spark that allows them the freedom to pay their rent and enjoy some holiday cheer.
This gift says, “We value your hard work and want to contribute to your personal goals or needs.” Consider giving at least one week’s pay as a bonus, or more if your budget allows, to genuinely show your gratitude.
At one point in my career, I relied heavily on my holiday bonus to ensure my basic needs were met and I could buy my family presents during that year. That bonus had a ripple effect that enhanced at least 20 lives.
2. Tickets to an Event or Experience
Gifting tickets to a concert, show, or event that aligns with your nanny’s interests is a thoughtful way to show that you pay attention to their likes and hobbies. Whether it’s a musical, a sports event, or a painting class, this personalized gift says, “We care about your personal enjoyment and interests outside of work.”
The most memorable gift I’ve received from a Nanny Family, besides a holiday bonus, was tickets to a show of my favorite comedian – something I couldn’t have afforded on my own. Thoughtfully, they included a ticket for my partner and even got tickets for themselves, turning the occasion into an amazing double date night. This gesture deeply strengthened my affection for them.
3. Additional Paid Time Off (PTO)
Offering extra paid time off during the holidays or at another time of their choice is a considerate and valuable gift. This gesture shows that you respect their need for personal time and relaxation.
Everyone appreciates a break from work. Reflect on whether your nanny has depleted their PTO due to personal or family obligations, hindering their ability to truly enjoy a holiday amidst life’s stresses. By providing extra PTO aimed at helping them rejuvenate, you’re not only supporting their well-being but also enhancing the quality of care they can offer to your children.
This could mean giving them additional time off during the holidays for a stress-free handling of unexpected situations, or allowing them to schedule a vacation at their convenience, giving them an enjoyable event to anticipate.
4. The Holiday Off with Family (paid)
If possible, giving your nanny the holiday off to spend with their family is a deeply meaningful gesture, especially when you pay them for this time. Often, nannies will say they are available to work due to a fear of losing their job, or because they are strapped for cash. By allowing them the freedom to connect with their family during a federal holiday, they won’t have to sacrifice their emotional needs to make ends meet. This shows tremendous respect for their personal life and family commitments. It says, “We value you as a part of our family and respect your time with yours.”
After working the same holiday for four consecutive years, it was a wonderful gift to share the coming new year with my loved ones. Granting your nanny the opportunity to experience such moments is invaluable.
5. A Personalized Gift
A gift that reflects your nanny’s personal tastes, such as a book by their favorite author, a special edition of something they collect, or an item related to a hobby they enjoy, shows that you pay attention to who they are as a person. This gift says, “We see and appreciate you not just as our nanny, but as the unique individual you are.”
6. A Handwritten Thank-You Note
As an addition to the above mentioned items, sometimes, a heartfelt, handwritten note can be the most touching gift of all. Expressing your gratitude and detailing the ways your nanny has positively impacted your family can be incredibly meaningful. This note says, “We truly value and are grateful for the love and care you bring to our home.”
These gift ideas are more than just tokens; they are expressions of genuine appreciation and recognition of your nanny’s hard work, dedication, and the positive impact they have on your family’s life. Whatever you choose, the key is to make it thoughtful and reflective of your nanny’s personality and needs, ensuring they feel truly valued this holiday season.
